[Ayles]

Not getting a cocktail, going to the casino, smoking a cigar is on you. I travel with my son and other people with and without kids all the time. Lots of vacation rentals etc...

There is no reason why you can't indulge. Once the kids are in bed its time for beer and bourbon. I will always grill up a steak or some lamb. My son is only three and loves a little steak/lamb too. No reason to eat mac and cheese.

Now, I would never impose my vomit soaked child on anyone. That's mine and my wife's job as parents to clean and bathe. Doubly so if they are sick.