1st - No need for Condolences, that's not what this is about. I was so mad about this, it's taken over a month to make a rational comment:
1) My mother had dementia for several years and passed away recently at age 87. I knew her time was soon, but when ahead with my Tahita trip. I told all I wasn't taking my phone, as I had no service out of country. Long store short, she passed during my trip over. There is very limited internet in Tahati and on cruise ships. Before I could notify my daughter and other close Family members, they had already seen it on Facebook:

2) Related topic - For over 20 years I was on the Executive board of a large Motorcycle club that had over 20,0000 members in 26 countries.....I administered an account with over $200,000 we could use to help accident victims, even if they passed. I can't tell you haw many crashes and even deaths I learned of on Facebook.....
I have a bunch of Trailer Trash Nephews and Nieces.....Anyone blame me for being ticked? (And I'm Sick....That's all.