[jhynesrockmtn]

Sorry to hear this is happening to someone else. My advice won't add much to what has been said already. Take care of yourself, it does get better over time. Don't do anything rash. Don't be overly generous at the beginning thinking you will avoid a fight later on. I was extremely lucky when my ex and I both mutually decided to end the marriage. We went through a mediated settlement, etc. I will say that once she got a lawyer, her demands went up for a bit. I guess I'm saying, be careful what you agree to early on as likely she will want more as the process unfolds......