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Originally Posted by sand_man
I have long since moved on, but I remember some of those events so vividly. I wonder, does a person ever really get past it? Even being in a a healthy long-term relationship now, I occasionally feel haunted.
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I suppose for some, the bad memories fade......... I think deep down inside instinct is to NEVER forget the source of a deep traumatic experience.......
The hate may diminish.......... but there are likely always vestiges of it........ Plus in hindsight it is a lot easier to see how getting involved with the ***** was the dumbest thing you ever did.....
Guys, it does get better........ really. like amputating a cancerous limb........ there can be wonderful life after........ and with any luck the experience has taught you to be more discerning about who you choose to let into your life.