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Originally Posted by wayner
As of tonight I rediscovered this thread...as I sit here eating mall food...wondering if mall security will have my truck towed while I am fast asleep in it tonight...add my name to the tally sheet...25 years...crap...  |
Sorry to hear it man. Lot's of good advice here.
All I have to add is to caution you to remember you can't give enough to make things better. Whether it's money, house, time with the kids - whatever - no matter what you offer to "make things better" or "make it go away fast" it's just going to be the opening bid for negotiations. It's easy to think about what you may have done to cause the problem - don't. There usually is no guiltless party. Start with "I'm keeping everything and you can go to hell" even if you don't mean it and negotiate a reasonable settlement from there. If you start at fair and reasonable you will get screwed.
Two divorces here. I learned the hard way.