Speaking of women:
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I find character to be an aphrodisiac.
I'll trade good looks, even stunning looks, for character any day. To me, it's all about the type of relationship a woman has with herself!!!
As long as she's not a battled-scarred zombie, that is.
I've found that some slightly overweight (curvaceous) women to be the most sensuous.
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A wholesome sense of self-acceptance, unafraid of her own reality, radical honesty (psychological visibility), and communicative...Yum!!!
We all harbor some form of neurosis and if she's unwilling to speak to hers, color me GONE...because that's from where most of the relationship discordance comes from.
The fear (unwillingness) of disclosing one's 'back pages'...for fear of being rejected. This is where self-acceptance comes in.
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So what happens when a couple splits? One or both goes right back out and runs the same dog & pony show on their "next", hoping to finally sell their BS to the "next".
As an ex-co director of a crisis center in CA, my experience, anyway.
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Don't get me started.
