[recycled sixtie]

[QUOTE=wayner;9491740]Is it worth doing all of this woman stuff all over again?

You likely need time to heal up. There is that chance that you can make a mistake again.
That is really hard to witness like my wife's brother who is on his second marriage. He is grinding it out(not in a good way) with his second wife but still married.

I think there is no in between with a wife. Either she is a good wife or a bad wife. And having a female friend with similar interests is important. If in doubt wait.