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Originally Posted by wayner
Of course, then there is the possibility that I am a complete ******* and don't know it, and may have unwitingly caused much of this myself...
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If I remember the feeling many years a go when I separated there is a turmoil of emotions going on inside my head. I never did go for counselling. I bent the ears of the my coworkers. I am sure it is easy to blame oneself or the other disproportionately.
That is why I think a good counselor comes in(although I did not use one but prob should have). I would not blame yourself. Sh-t happens. The health system or voluntary org. may supply an objective counselor. Well worth it just to vent. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Cheers, Guy