[Jeff Alton]

Originally Posted by wayner

Of course, then there is the possibility that I am a complete ******* and don't know it, and may have unwitingly caused much of this myself...

Wayner,

Don't take this the wrong way, but the first thing I did when I split with my ex (I kicked her out) was ask myself how much I contributed. It does take 2 to tango as they say. Not saying that means you are at fault by any means, but a situation like this does present an opportunity to take a good look at oneself. I know I made some significant changes in my life outlook post split.

It sucked when we split. Day after my son's second birthday. In the long run it was the best thing that could have happened to me. She probably feels the same way, but I never asked her...