Like Jeff stated, after my divorce I took time for myself and looked at it as a fresh start.
During that time I lost 55 pounds, took a promotion at work and moved 80 miles away from my hometown. It was the best thing to happen, in my case.
It was during that time that I set the goal of buying a 911 for going through the divorce without hurting anyone.
Times will be dark for you but keep hope that they WILL get better.