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Originally Posted by Don Ro

"If I have any money left I was thinking of getting a divorce present for me"
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Why not take some of that money, research an astute therapist, and find out what it is about you that a woman (wife) of 26 years would want to leave?
Else you're destined to repeat.
After all, YOU - and the relationship that you have with yourself - got left.

OK, it's possible that he was the problem, but it doesn't sound like it. Lots of folks (especially wives), seem to get an itch after 20-30 years when the kids get out of the house and they start trying to figure out who they are now that their primary job isn't "mom" any more. Who knows. I'm going with her being a loon, and him being fine. We've seen it here over and over again.

I guess photos of you waist deep in a half a dozen hot young girls to send to the Ex isn't that good an idea? j/k.