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Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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Originally Posted by gsxrken
Sympathies.
I hate these sort of stories. It would be one thing if they were about the end of a crummy loveless marriage, but more often than not the guys sounds like they had no clue and get completely blindsided. Are we just oblivious or do the women really just snap?
I'm in a great 20+ year marriage. As far as I know.
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"As far as I know."
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Hilarious! 
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My experience >>> most women will verbalize, and if not they'll communicate their dissatisfaction in some way, and most men will disregard or minimize the issue(s).
Until...............................
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Many men tend to mistake Humility and vulnerability for inferiority.
Hard-wired to not easily get off their (ego) position and go into a state of admission and ownership.
Thus they don't learn conflict resolution...thinking that to do so means becoming powerless, inferior.
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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