Better days are coming.
My ex-wife did pretty much the same as yours. I'll skip the details, but I made out like a bandit. The key is, In SC an affair leading to the dissolution of a marriage precludes any alimony. I kept the house, my truck, and the Porsche. I gave the ex a boat load of money. She has no room to complain. Because of the divorce I learned to put myself first. I rediscovered myself, dated scores of women, and did many things I've always wanted. Finally met my new wife. This one is stunningly pretty. On top of that she has Masters degree, and a great job. She's a bit younger than I, but doesn't mind. Anyway, I sold the Porsche, and bought another dream car of mine. A viper.
Better days are coming.