It's a bit of a bumpy road ahead and your finances will not be fully in place until all the "i"'s are dotted and the "T"s crossed. Women are fickle (as you have found out) and sometimes when the tears stop the claws come out. Be prepared for changes.
I just put the finishing touches and signatures on my non-modifiable judgement. The house sold, the one time alimony payment cashier's check sent to the ex and the Champagne cork popped.
I got the 911 in the deal so no need to scratch that itch. But I did buy myself a little something to celebrate that I've been wanting for awhile...
