The irony is strong here....
A fine Christian woman searching for similar man....so she breaks all sorts of vows, Commandments, abandons her "heathen" husband and kids....
Nope, I ain't buying into her bs story
Mentally, she was done with you imo....WAY before she actually left and hooked up with an old flame.
Many woman seem to change radically after the kids are grown, menapause REALLY changes a few, and many don't like wrinkles and what time does to us all. Trying to recapture youth....I dunno???
Be well Grog....you and your kids will be just fine