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Originally Posted by M.D. Holloway

some do, some want to meet a 'nice guy' and settle down while others want to have professional jobs in marketing, sales and the like. Surprisingly there are more 'normal' girls into then you would think. Not all are TPT but most all do drugs and all were molested. Its actually sad. I can't go into those clubs anymore and not look at these women as pure sex objects. As corny as it may sound, after hearing many of their stories, I find these places very depressing because I know that these girls really don't want this life style. They happened upon it for a few reasons and it engulfed them.

I bartended in topless bars for about 5 years. As a fellow employee things are different than as a customer, and being there when they come in is sweats and a T-shirt with no make-up, most are just ordinary girls. They usually have a lot of baggage. I also found it sad and depressing. Yeah, I love to see hot nearly naked women, but then getting to know them and their problems really sucked. Yeah, most end up doing drugs if they don't start out that way. Most don't really like what they are doing, but it's a vicious circle that they can't get out of because there are aspects of it that make them feel superficially, temporarily good. Then later, they feel bad and go back to feel good again. I'm really glad I didnt' spend more time in that environment, but it was educational.