[sc_rufctr]

"You did it to yourself"... It took me about 2 years to realize this after my divorce.

It can be hard to listen to your life being told by someone you've never met but I'd suggest everybody watch all three videos.
The last one was especially relevant to me. If she wont own her s**t then you have to be willing to let her leave... And help her pack.

Thanks for posting.