ok, ill tel ya true. if you are moving out there to be with her, get married and do the commitment. if you are not going to stick with her, theres no reason to go east for your training. you will have more fun in ca, or some western state where the rust naps occassionally and living expenses are lower. is your resume on waynes computer???? or maybe she could move here. longing for a woman is not the thing that you should be basing a move and career change on.
for what it's worth, and with a grain of salt.........