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Lee. This isn't true for everyone, so take it for what it means to you. A year after a break up of 20+ years is a relatively short time to begin attaching yourself emotionally to another lady. I'd vote for giving yourself at least another year of freedom from attachment. Of course this is coming from a guy that didn't remarry until twelve years after my divorce, but during that time I had lots of lady friends. My impression was through experiencing a number of different female personalities, I was a better judge of long term prospects. I wouldn't trade my wife now for a billionaire starlet.
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I spent 5 years between marriages and had one long term relationship in the middle, that didn't work out. Take your time and make sure you know what _YOU_ want. And what you don't want. Take time to figure it out.
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