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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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Originally Posted by john70t
A few days ago was my 'official' breakup with the ex.
We'd been together over a decade.
Mitigating circumstances, physical and emotional on her part, made it a relationship of convenience, on her behalf.
We were close lovers, then roommates, then friends, then distant acquaintances.
See the trend?
Every step was 100% on her part.
She asks favors and I do them. I ask favors and she balks and protests.
See the trend?
She borrows money, gets pissy about paying back and almost runs over my dog.
I'm old and the world is large.
I have no need for these people.
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Every point you made sounds to me like BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) coupled with Attachment Avoidant style of relating.
I spent 3 1/2 yrs. with your wife's clone.
They do not change!!!
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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