I feel for you Island, family health problems are usually very taxing.
I have recently tried to discourage my daughter from downloading music files, I know the chances of her getting caught are slim, but it is illegal. I took my daughter to the Metalica Summer Sanitarium because I got a half priced ticket from her friend who bailed. Deftones kick ass. Metalica is a pair of megalomaniacs (Ulrich & Hetfield) drunk on their success. Half into their set my daughter asked why no pyrotechnics, I said "let's go I'll explain it on the way to the car. We weren't impressed, when they came out on stage they more or less dissed the other 4 bands by stating they would bring it to another level.
I saw them 12 years ago before they became so important & was impressed.