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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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"Today I find out she has run up $4000 already."
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She's being secretive about it, apparently. No different than the boozer who hides the bottle in the gargag or behind the toilet tank....etc.
You have an addict on your hands.
I've witnessed this in three women with whom I've been involved.
Latest is my 63 yr. old g/f who owes over $140k on a refi, $3k to her sister (payed off a credit card) and who a week ago bought a $950 antique lamp with PayPal credit.
She's semi-retired and barely can make ends meet with her income.
It's an illness.
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Don
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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