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Originally Posted by scottmandue
Refied the house in April and paid everything off and swore up and down "no more using credit!"
Today I find out she has run up $4000 already.
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Was going to say something else, until I re-read that. Yikes.
She was caught big time....but now doing it more?
That is seriously self-destructive behavior.
She wants to hurt you, or her, or both of you, and is determined to bring it all down.
She gets a high from these unneeded objects and the thrill of the risk and the damage done.
Any concerns for you or any others involved are no longer relevant...
I hope there aren't kids involved.
One problem is that our current credit and/or legal system considers husband/wife the same: Jointly and severally liable.
One partner can commit the crime but everyone is automatically guilty, in-perpetuity.
She needs psych help IMO.
Something is driving this behavior which might be able to be changed.