[sc_rufctr]

Oh Gawd, this is all so familiar. My ex wife had a serious drinking issues and she wouldn't do anything about it.
The marriage just slid into oblivion. I may have been able to catch it but I'm ashamed to say I just let it slide.
So we get divorced and soon after I'm dating another drunk... Years later I realized it was not them but me enabling it.

I don't have anything constructive to add but I really hope it works out for the best.