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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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Originally Posted by aschen
I might be able to work through an issue where my wife has a spending control problem.
However, I would have a very hard time if I knew my wife was willing to blatantly lie to me. Dishonesty and lack of trust seem like a very fundamental problem in the relationship.
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Lack of and/or broken trust has been the key issue that has had me end a few relationships.
Never married. Almost three times.
The first involved infidelity during our engagement, the second was twice to the same lady.
During the first debacle, I discovered that I'm the type that once betrayed the trust is gone forever...as much as I tried to regain it.
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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