[LakeCleElum]

Fred: Congrats on the birth. UR a lucky guy.

Regarding the car: there is a lot of missing information, some of which you might not have available to you.

Is he gonna give it to the cousin's husband, sell it cheap or sell for fair market value?
What was the relationship between all involved over the years? Was cousin more in contact than you? Did the cousin or husband have a stronger work ethic than you were viewed as having?

When I pass, I know of many that will come out of the woodwork wanting my cars, bikes, cabin, etc.....Some are deserving, most are not.....I will favor those that worked hard and made their own way thru life. Those that stayed in touch and thanked me for gifts I've sent over the years.

A lot of factors in these kind if decisions......I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. Just saying I could be "That Guy" someday...