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Originally Posted by vash
is this anal? neat tidy house..maybe more anti-social?
whatever. if they are decent friends, so be it. you called them "good friends". maybe they have some deep-seeded aversion to anyone seeing their inner sanctum..whatever.
i dont think my friendships are based on quid pro quo. just let it go...caulk it off as odd, and be happy they have each other in all their oddness. hell, if he was my 30 year longterm friend..i'd flat out ask him. i would trust the friendship is good enough for some hard honesty.
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Mrs Saucy and I are VERY neat and tidy, even with a 3 and 2 year old our house, yard and cars are very well kept. For us, it's a function of how we were raised and respect our "nice things."
However, we are by no means anal... Ex: Small human bike can remain in back yard grass entire week, dog chew toys are randomly strewn about back yard (both get moved while mowing) but the inside of the house is vac'd every other day, kitchen cleaned nightly etc etc