RIP Mama Flatbutt 1923-2017
My mother Catherine passed away August 21 after a long slide to the end. Three sons, 7 grandchildren, 12 great-grand children, nieces and nephews all gathered to mark her passing. Sadly there were no friends as she had outlived them all.
She had a very good life even though intense memories of a depression era childhood haunted her. She dealt with the stress of her fiance’ fighting in France and the Pacific theatre with what I’ve been told was tremendous grace.
She had a taste for simple things, especially in food and clothing. Simple things were “good enough” for her and her sons were taught the same lesson. Even though she never completed her education which ended in grammar school she was nobodys fool. I frequently accompanied her to do her shopping and watched her deal with people as astutely as any could wish to.
I was well known to the nursing home staff as I spent a lot of time at her bedside even though she was unresponsive for weeks before her passing. I got a call when Mom appeared to be slipping away and got to her side within hours. When I got there I knew it was time and I made the calls. Moms chaplain arrived in no time at all but my family is spread out so I was alone save for the Chaplain.
Her brain fought off the end for hours as I watched her strain for every breath. Then finally peace came.
I was glad to be with her at the end and hope some piece of her knew she wasn’t alone.
She fervently believed in Life Everlasting and I truly hope that she is now reunited with her soldier.
Rest in Peace Ma’ you certainly earned it.
