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Originally Posted by Gogar

Just remember that
Every time you READ something it's very easy to apply your preferred emotion to it.
Something bland can upset you because your brain naturally wants to run with it.

So, yeah he did something slightly goofy but that's about it. Highly unlikely he meant anything at all by it. Let your wife handle it.

ding, ding, ding.

Even the "(paraphrasing here)" part could have paraphrased in a way that made it seem creepier than it actually was because of your gut reaction.

When I have a strong reaction to something, especially if it's negative and especially if it's via some form of text without the benefit of personal interaction, I try to step back and wonder if there was a way that I could have misinterpretted what I read.