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just went through this with my mom about a month ago, dad has been several years.

what made it easier for me is I said goodbye to my dad when he could understand, then for me once he was "out" I was ready for him to go. the family was together and we all enjoyed memories around dad.

mom was different. she was "out" when I saw her but I did basically say goodbye quite a while before. but basically the same. she had dementia and was pretty bad. she hung on for almost a week. sounds morbid but glad it is over just because I know she/they are not suffering. helps me to deal with the loss. to make it worse we had to put her in a home and we hated that.

just know once they are unconscious they are not suffering.