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I've been following this thread with some personal interest, I like many others here am a divorce veteran.
The thing is that it's a different experence for each of us. And we have to go thru it our own way.
I fall closer to the folks Lee mentioned being hard to understand ( still sad after a long time). Than being ready to party and date soon after its finalized. But that's just me.

Wayne you have obviously been working at it consciously and making your way thru as best that works for you. Can't really ask more of yourself. Have patience, it's not easy growing beyond a life long commitment even if your pardner has.

I try not to judge my progress by that of others too much as were each on our own path.

It seems like you are gaining insight and continuing to learn as time goes along, maybe that's good enough for now.

Cheers Richard