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All the way through high school I tried way too hard. I tried being cool, I tried being an ass, I tried being smooth. I always made an ass of myself. I also missed signs like crazy. Years later girls saying "I had such a crush" and whatnot. Downright infuriating. Can't they just say so? I'm not good at subtlety.
So anyhow, I go to college and decide that I will not waste time trying. I will just go to class and party with my droogies and not worry about it. So unwittingly, I stumbled onto the holy grail of making women want you- ignore them. Not in an assholish way, but rather truly just say high when they come by and then go back to playing grabby ass with my friends. That is how I ended up with girls being aggressive towards me. Because they would do their subtle thing, and realize that I was not going to pickup on anything that wasn't super obvious, such as "I want you to kiss me". Those words are something I understand. LOL. Too bad that I figured it out that late, as I met my wife a short couple of months later. Same thing- she came around to hang out with me, and I thought because she was older it was some kind of prank from my fraternity brothers so I kind of rebuffed her for awhile. Until she jumped on me. Frankly by today's standards I was assaulted. It was great.
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