[svandamme]

My mum married 3 times, has 3 kids from different dads, not one of them got raised by their own dad.

I was the first one, thinking Vandamme was my real dad, he kept joking i was from the mailman.

At 12 she divorced that pos, and then when he kept asking me to go live with him, basically using me to get to her..
she casually mentions , "oh he's not your real dad anyway".

I still wanted to go live with him cause she was cray cray. when she finally said, ok.
he said, well I haven't got time for you.

Obviously I ended up with some psycholigist because I was starting to act out badly.
Bi weekly counceling, after 2 months, at night I sleep walk down stairs,
wake up to see the psychologist having a go at my mum.
So much for every trusting anyone again in life.

I got loads more stories like that if you really wanna talk about "bad parenting"