Here's my FedEx story. I shipped two tires, insured. Buyer is suppose to sign for delivery. Nobody home. Instead, driver forges the delivery slip and leaves the tires in front of the house whereupon they promptly disappear. FE paid the insurance, but the buyer was left w/o tires he wanted. Isolated situation - probably. I've had pretty good luck with UPS (knock on wood), but I use USPS on international shipments.
Sherwood Lee
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