[Jims5543]

A sure fie way to piss off Mrs5543 is to go out of my way on St. Hallmarks day and do something "romantic" because I was obligated to.

Instead I do little things for her all the time. Example, many months ago I surprised her with tickets to see her favorite comedian Seinfeld, who is coming through this area in 2 weeks.

A couple of months ago Foo fighter tickets we being presold to Capitol One card holders, we were too late and missed out. I could see how crushed she was. She has no idea we have very expensive row 8 seats via stub hub. Yeah that cost me but so what you only live once.

I "could" give them to her tomorrow, but that would diminish the surprise. Instead I will wait until a couple of week before the show and surprise her. Boom!! out of nowhere a big surprise, and St. Halmark did not make me do it.

I love buying flowers for her during off times when people are not buying them, I always get the "What did you do" comments when purchasing them. They are perplexed when I say, nothing just thought she would like the house brightened up a little.

My BIL on the other hand HAS to do the whole horse and pony show so his wife can show off on social media how awesome they are.

Homey don't play that.