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Originally Posted by pwd72s
Tabs, if content, why the worry over what others do or think?
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Because I write about it doesn't mean I worry about it... I clarify and define situations as an objective observer. If that creates worry or fear within you, it means you don't understand completely what you are dealing with.
That said fear and anxiety are natural states of being alive. Many times that is a heads up giving you warning that something is up..as to which you have an as of yet unawareness of. That is a built in survival alarm system.
In life there are challenges and struggles to resolve or overcome. That is a given and you will have worries etc but those are EXTERNAL PROBLEMS to be dealt with and not within yourself. The contentment I am talking about is other than the day to day living. Briefly it is in how you handle your situations, and your own state of being. Getting to know that the problems are external to yourself and not within you is the trick, and that takes the process of making those previously stated "guidelines your own"
Until you can do that you are one big ball of confusion. Welcome to the jungle Baby