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Originally Posted by stealthn
She seemed glad to hear I was ok and had a good life, but didn’t really seem like she wanted to get closer (which hurt, but it’s Ok).
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That is a big bag of worms to open.
Tread carefully as pwd says is about as good as anything I can say.
You may be yearning for reunion but your Mom may be clouded (burdened) with whatever unfavorable comes along with having to give a child up.
Not fair to make another person eat her sins "right now" when she may have come clean in her mind or buried it completely. Eating sins means she has to address the obvious to/with you.
I say little "Hey" notes twice a year. See if it grows.