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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Dismal Nitch, AZ
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Withholding is the most pernicious form of lying.
Compulsive liars...no one needs them. Easy to spot, easy to dump. What's the loss?
But in a relationship that is hoped to be meaningful...that's where we see withholding.
All relationships are best described not by what is shared but by what is withheld.
My .02.
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"Fully integrated people, in their transparency, tend to not be subject to mechanisms of defense, disguise, deceit, and fraudulence."
- - Don R. 1994, an excerpt from My Ass From a Hole in the Ground - A Comparative View
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