[fintstone]

i might suggest that opening the door of a stranger's van is pretty risky...as they are reportedly the tool of choice for those who abduct women and children. Even moreso, imagine if she were in her car and a group of inebriated men came up and opened doors. She would likely have been terrified.

I would have likely been annoyed, as it could have just as easily been my classic 911 with the perfect, $10K+ glass out paint job...and she cold have chipped the paint (but I wold not have been visibly upset). I guess any car i would leave with a valet would not be one that would make me crazy if someone touched it.

To many women, a car is just a nondescript tool...no different than a shopping cart. They really do not get it. Especially if it is a practical vehicle like a van. She meant no harm. Let it go.