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Originally Posted by oldE
Can I pose a question?
Imagine you have just made a mistake. Would you better learn from your mistake if it were pointed out to you unemotionally, or would it be better if you had someone rage at you.
I would suggest human nature would prompt you to dismiss the message behind the raging.
Best
Les
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It is my observation of the type of person I believe to be in question that the difference between the two approaches you mention would only make a difference in the vulgar word used to describe you when they talk about the event afterwards.
Calmly pointing out unemotionally would get you called a particular body part possessed by males.
Emotionally pointing it out without calm would get you called a body part possessed by both males and females.