Question for the dating experts on here.

[Baz]

[Dixie]

Originally Posted by Baz

2.5 men vid

That was pretty cute.

[Targa68]

I happen to love a smart ass, I think it's the best combination😀

[Baz]

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[Bill Douglas]

I went out with this chick for a while then got a bit sick of her. So I said to her "I think you are a bit too promiscuous for me." And she said "ME PROMISCUOS! I've only slept with three other guys since we started dating."

Seriously. The people you meet, or wish to NOT meet, on these online dating places.

[Baz]

Originally Posted by Bill Douglas

I went out with this chick for a while then got a bit sick of her. So I said to her "I think you are a bit too promiscuous for me." And she said "ME PROMISCUOS! I've only slept with three other guys since we started dating."

Seriously. The people you meet, or wish to NOT meet, on these online dating places.

To each their own. If I want to meet prospects....I go to the grocery store and/or beach.

[Bill Douglas]

Originally Posted by Baz

T...I go to the grocery store and/or beach.

Or dog walking.

[cockerpunk]

Originally Posted by Bill Douglas

I went out with this chick for a while then got a bit sick of her. So I said to her "I think you are a bit too promiscuous for me." And she said "ME PROMISCUOS! I've only slept with three other guys since we started dating."

Seriously. The people you meet, or wish to NOT meet, on these online dating places.

are you insecure? she is choosing to continue to date you, that must mean she likes you.

like, i dont get this mentality. if she's picking you, then like, you are doing fine. if you say you want to be exclusive and she doesnt want to be, thats fine too, but if your not exclusive, who cares?

[Bill Douglas]

Originally Posted by cockerpunk

are you insecure? she is choosing to continue to date you, that must mean she likes you.

like, i dont get this mentality. if she's picking you, then like, you are doing fine. if you say you want to be exclusive and she doesnt want to be, thats fine too, but if your not exclusive, who cares?

Those are a lot of questions so I'll answer generally. Life is all about where you position yourself and she was a bit rough and slutty for me.

[cockerpunk]

Originally Posted by Bill Douglas

Those are a lot of questions so I'll answer generally. Life is all about where you position yourself and she was a bit rough and slutty for me.

i mean if you dont like her, thats fine.

just seems like a weird reason to stop dating someone, like, there is no shame or whatever around not being exclusive if your not exclusive.

[Bill Douglas]

Around here if you start seeing someone - dates dinner, talking each day it's considered exclusive.

[Baz]

Originally Posted by Bill Douglas

Around here if you start seeing someone - dates dinner, talking each day it's considered exclusive.

It's like that here as well, Bill.

[Dixie]

Originally Posted by cockerpunk

are you insecure? she is choosing to continue to date you, that must mean she likes you.

like, i dont get this mentality. if she's picking you, then like, you are doing fine. if you say you want to be exclusive and she doesnt want to be, thats fine too, but if your not exclusive, who cares?

I sudpect she said that as a kinda FU. Women underreport encounters, especially to men.

What baffles me is the guys who want chaste women tend to be the ones complaining later on they're trapped in sexless marriages. I don't think they realize they got exactly what they wanted.

I mean, I've been married three times, and have only had sex twice.

[WPOZZZ]

You've been married 3 times?

[cockerpunk]

Originally Posted by Bill Douglas

Around here if you start seeing someone - dates dinner, talking each day it's considered exclusive.

nothing is agreed upon until its agreed upon.

thats how adults work. there is no implications or being mad about them, there is clear communication, boundaries etc. if you expect that someone is exclusive because they talk to you ever day, then you need to say that.

[cockerpunk]

Originally Posted by Dixie

I sudpect she said that as a kinda FU. Women underreport encounters, especially to men.

What baffles me is the guys who want chaste women tend to be the ones complaining later on they're trapped in sexless marriages. I don't think they realize they got exactly what they wanted.

I mean, I've been married three times, and have only had sex twice.

oh i agree completely. to them, a woman must somehow be a wild sex kitten, and never having done it before.

like what? guess how you get good at ****ing. you ****. thats how you get good at it. you want a good lay? **** someone who has ****ed a lot before. thats how you do that. and not just having ****ed a lot, but ****ed a lot of people, so you get that diversity of experience. nothing worse than someone who thinks they are good because of that one trick that that one person who they banged for a decade loved, but does nothing for you. like, dumbest thought process ever is wanting a good lay, and then wanting someone to have not ****ed much. like thats not how any of this works you fools.




but even moreso than this stupidity, is the stupidity of having "won" the game, and still being mad about it. like men who get mad that women see other people, and then still continue to hang out with you. like, you won. and you are mad? or the often cited example of a woman who fell out of touch for a few weeks, and then calls back. fell out of touch because she dated someone else for a few weeks, and then calls you up. you get that you won right? she said, awe that guy was dumb, this other guy i went on those dates with a few weeks ago is way cooler, im going to call him ... and they are mad about this? like what? dumb as rocks. you weren't even at the "game" and you still won, and now your mad?

idk, men are ****ing morons in dating. makes it all the more easy for those of us who arnt.

[speeder]

Doesn't sound like the guy "won" in your scenario, more like a tie.