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Seahawk 06-08-2018 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by motion (Post 10066436)
Looking for something new seems artificial and disingenuous to me. At the age of 61, he had probably already addressed everything that was meant to be, at least for him.

I'm at the same point, so I sort of feel like I know him... I'm never going to go out and look for something new, to conjure something to have passion for. Its impossible. The things that construct me, I have already addressed. Life feels like a dead-end when you're at that point. I'm very happy, though, and will continue to focus on the few things that are important to me. If Tony was in a new relationship, I guess he didn't have a "rock" to hold onto.

Only he knows, and again, the solace his young child will need as she matures will be paramount.

I know him in reverse: I went everywhere and did everything when I was young: Sports, kayaking, surfing, rafting guide, Navy pilot; travel and adventure world wide with purpose and whimsy.

Married late, 36, and found the next groove, the passion. Now, at 61, kids grown and the best people I know, I find business and growing my company the next groove, the passion.

Happiness finds a home...your insights and honesty is remarkable.

Don Ro 06-08-2018 10:19 AM

I watched a special on Larry Fitzgerald (AZ Cardinals) recently.
All about the places he's traveled and done. Remarkable, truly.
Then he spoke of there being so much more to see and do, etc. You could see the lust in his face.
I watched, listened...and thought...Hmm.

pwd72s 06-08-2018 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Baz (Post 10066450)
You know....it's entirely possible that he received news of a terminal illness....we don't know.

That would be one way to explain someone checking out - on their own terms.

Definitely. I knew a man who did just that. To him, the choice was simple. Give all he'd worked for to the medical community and endure a lot of pain in exchange for a perhaps 1% chance of surviving, or leave a legacy for those he loved.

In a case like that, I would think anybody would consider checking out.

Rodsrsr 06-08-2018 11:13 AM

He was also well known in the Brazilian Jiu Jitsu community. Although in this pic he's a Blue Belt, Im pretty sure he was up to Purple. http://forums.pelicanparts.com/uploa...1528481615.jpg

Crowbob 06-08-2018 11:35 AM

The only thing I knew about the guy was his name. I never saw one minute of him or read one word about him.

If somebody were to have said his name to me this morning I would have to ask, 'Who is he again?'

I gues I missed out on something.

masraum 06-08-2018 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Crowbob (Post 10066587)
The only thing I knew about the guy was his name. I never saw one minute of him or read one word about him.

If somebody were to have said his name to me this morning I would have to ask, 'Who is he again?'

I gues I missed out on something.

I'm sure you'll be able to pick up tons of re-runs. He had many of his own shows. He also narrated some other shows. He was entertaining and refreshing for what I saw of him.

pwd72s 06-08-2018 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Crowbob (Post 10066587)
The only thing I knew about the guy was his name. I never saw one minute of him or read one word about him.

If somebody were to have said his name to me this morning I would have to ask, 'Who is he again?'

I gues I missed out on something.

Me too...I just click onward when TV surfing if a cooking show comes up. It's one of those special interest celebrity things. Much the same if a pool champion dies...I'd probably be the only one here to recognize the name.

pete3799 06-08-2018 12:08 PM

Never have heard of the man till this thread, but sucks to hear about it just the same.
RIP Mr. Bourdain.

scottmandue 06-08-2018 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Evans, Marv (Post 10066324)
After all he'd given up heroin, smoking, prostitutes, and reduced his drinking - according to him. I have a feeling he had always been searching for something he could never find.

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Originally Posted by RANDY P (Post 10066161)
I liked his show- I guess he traveled 250 days a year to shoot- eff that. Got divorced over it.

Moral of the story- company will run you into the ground if you let them.

rjp

Are we sure the divorce was about his work?

Was he partially involve as a producer? Did he have some say on the traveling?

madcorgi 06-08-2018 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by motion (Post 10066436)

I'm at the same point, so I sort of feel like I know him... I'm never going to go out and look for something new, to conjure something to have passion for. Its impossible. The things that construct me, I have already addressed. Life feels like a dead-end when you're at that point. I'm very happy, though, and will continue to focus on the few things that are important to me.

Wow. I'm the same age as you, but my problem is that I want to do too many additional things, and mourn that there's not enough lifetime left to do them all. I just sold a business and would like to buy another, but can't justify taking the risk at my age. Plus the decline in my physicality caused by years of pounding and abuse in a variety of violent endeavors rules out other things I'd like to do, like blade-smithing or endurance racing, as two examples.

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Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 10066455)
Only he knows, and again, the solace his young child will need as she matures will be paramount.

I know him in reverse: I went everywhere and did everything when I was young: Sports, kayaking, surfing, rafting guide, Navy pilot; travel and adventure world wide with purpose and whimsy.

Married late, 36, and found the next groove, the passion. Now, at 61, kids grown and the best people I know, I find business and growing my company the next groove, the passion.

If you're starting up or at a relatively early stage of a company at age 61, Paul, I salute you. That takes guts that I don't have.

AB was a wonderful, creative guy who happened to have depression. It's an insidious disease that robs one of one's own free will, and, it seems, is common in creative people. Like Speeder said, it's not that surprising.

The deaths of Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain, and for that matter Chris Cornell, Chester Bennington, and Robin Williams, all hugely successful and wealthy, show just how small a role $$ and material success plays in happiness.

KFC911 06-08-2018 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Crowbob (Post 10066587)
The only thing I knew about the guy was his name. I never saw one minute of him or read one word about him.

If somebody were to have said his name to me this morning I would have to ask, 'Who is he again?'

I gues I missed out on something.

Same here....when I heard it on the news his morning, I had another chef's image....I reckon I don't know who that guy is either....

That said...RIP Anthony. I also feel bad for those he left to deal with this...

KFC911 06-08-2018 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by madcorgi (Post 10066653)
... how small a role $$ and material success plays in happiness.

Yep...and once your basic needs are taken care of, I've reached the conclusion that it can be quite detrimental actually, for many.

berettafan 06-08-2018 12:53 PM

NPR just reran a recent interview with him.

Was fantastic to listen to. He talked about despising brunch. Gotta love a guy that thinks that way!

Can't support an act that leaves a child without one of their parents though.

javadog 06-08-2018 12:57 PM

I have a feeling that this is going to turn out to have something to do with his current girlfriend...

Gogar 06-08-2018 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by madcorgi (Post 10066653)
The deaths of Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain, and for that matter Chris Cornell, Chester Bennington, and Robin Williams, all hugely successful and wealthy, show just how small a role $$ and material success plays in happiness.

Money doesn't change things, it only amplifies the things that were already there.

KFC911 06-08-2018 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gogar (Post 10066696)
Money doesn't change things, it only amplifies the things that were already there.

I tend to agree with Cyndi....for a LOT of folks....jmo.

drkshdw 06-08-2018 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by javadog (Post 10066685)
I have a feeling that this is going to turn out to have something to do with his current girlfriend...

"Three hours before his death was first reported, the Italian actress posted an Instagram story that showed her wearing a ripped, black T-shirt that read, “F–K EVERYONE” — with the cryptic caption, “You know who you are,” in an image obtained by People."

and...

"TMZ reports that Anthony was in France shooting his CNN show “Anthony Bourdain: Parts Unknown” for the past few days while Argento was spending time in Rome with a French reporter. She was reportedly spotted holding hands and hugging the reporter, but the photos have been pulled in the wake of Bourdain’s death."

javadog 06-08-2018 02:10 PM

Well, that's not good. I hope that doesn't mean what it seems...

mreid 06-08-2018 02:16 PM

I’ll go out on a limb. I thought he was great. Funny, he looks like my brother’s twin, actually add in Niel Gorsuch and they could be triplets. Anyway, AB was very active in the #metoo movement, very critical of all the abusers. However, rumors are surfacing that he may have some accusers.

Truth is, we will probably never know or understand what really drove him to this point.

madcorgi 06-08-2018 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by KC911 (Post 10066666)
Yep...and once your basic needs are taken care of, I've reached the conclusion that it can be quite detrimental actually, for many.

Awhile back Princeton did a study that showed that once people reach incomes of $75K, making more money does not make them any happier. I think there is an exception for those of us who must have air-cooled Porsches in order to be truly happy.


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