Hey Brother 85,
So how old is your DME relay?
If it is the original, it may need replacing. I am sure you have a back up right? If not, it is recommended that you have a backup DME relay ($30) handy in your baby.
Hope that solves your issue. It did for me
I upgraded to the double wire Cylender Head Temperature Sensor and New DME relay and a New DME relay in trunk for back up.
My baby starts and runs great.