[myamoto1]

My wife was horrible w/ finances and had huge debt when I met her. I got her out of debt (didn't bail her out of debt). She's a lot more financially responsible now, but she's still not great w/ money. She's a stay-at-home mom, so I take 10% of my salary and put it into an account for her, 10% for me and the rest goes into a joint account for bills and savings. She can do whatever she wants w/ her 10%, but that includes her gas money, latte money, etc. if she runs out before the next pay check (I don't make a lot), she's SOL.