[onewhippedpuppy]

Pittsburgh, KS huh? Not to far from me.

Just think of it this way - things can only get better. Sometimes $h!t just happens, try not to dwell on it and focus on just surviving. Considering your situation, I would say to hell with everything else and focus on the wedding. Lets the pros focus on fixing your other problems and just get past the biggest and most stressful event in your life. In six months you and your wife will be laughing about all of this crap.