So, you would prefer she abort the child?
I would ask for a DNA test regardless since the timing is odd given the two month relationship, two week lag time from her Mom letting you know, etc. Six weeks from hello to pregnant?
Your son's life just changed.
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Originally Posted by crustychief
My youngest son is 17 and a senior in high school. His girlfriend of 2 months is 18 and is making up high school, she should have graduated last year. Two days ago her mother brought my son home and announced the girlfriend is pregnant. During the difficult conversation ( i had only met the mother once before) I found out she has known for about two weeks, that pissed me off a little and I let her know in a nice way. The girlfriend has made up her mind that she wants to keep the baby, partly due to my sons vow of support to her. He lives with me, she lives with her parents. Her parents support her decision and my son wants me to support it as well. I am having a difficult time not blowing up at him as I see this as a HUGE mistake that can be corrected now but not for long. Does anyone have any experience with this? I have two other sons 20, and 22. I really thought my 22 year old would have been the one to do something like this. I look at it like he is on a ledge and I cant talk him down. I can't support his decision, he is a kid.
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