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Hi, Dennis. Long time, man...
Don nailed it. Borderline Personality Disorder. Extremely nasty, incurable, and untreatable. It happened to my wife, and I had to get divorced to save myself. She was cheating on me openly on craigslist, and she even admitted it in couples therapy, as if there was nothing wrong! After I moved out and we sold the house, her life went in the crapper because the lies are constant. Her family has nothing to do with her, her friends left her, and she has genital herpes (on her lips, etc) from her cheating. It's been estimated that the incidence of herpes is 30% - 50% among the people on the singles websites, and it's now thought that it can be contracted even when the symptoms aren't visible. Herpes is already an epidemic, and it's just going to get worse.
Besides myself, other men on this forum have had failed relationships due to BPD, and it's been discussed 2 or 3 times in the time I've been here. I'm sorry that it happened to you. There is nothing you could've done differently.
I must say, it's really good to hear from you!
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