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Wish I had said more...
Mom passed away day before Thanksgiving. She had a bold, glorious & adventurous life living to almost 92. In her own words, "My end here will be with no regrets." While celebrating her life, I find myself wishing I had told her more often how much she meant to me---how much I loved her.
...Food for thought.
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Sorry for your loss.
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She knew. A mother knows. Trust me.
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Bingo...my mom has been gone for decades now. All I can tell you is that the loss will always hurt. But given time, it will hurt less.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Your mom's words are inspiring. I think she knew.
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I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure many of us have wished we had said more after it's too late. I believe many people, especially moms, intuit how we feel without the need for a lot of words. Still, I know the regretful feeling of things left unsaid.
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Like everyone lucky enough to have been raised by loving parents, I often wish I could share a thought or ask them a question. I do realize just how lucky I am to have two parents that were married for over 50 years, and always had food to eat, and a warm safe home to live in. Parents that loved me. Born in the USA, in the land of the free. Damn lucky indeed.
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Sure, we all do: Love is different. If you need affirmation best of luck.
As a parent I had to adjust my children's behavior at times, no kind words spoken. But they knew I loved them. To the OP: She knew, that was my point, inelegantly articulated.
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Love only needs to be verbal to the needy, she doesn't appear to have been.
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Great appreciation to you guys for the sentiments and perspective that... "She knew." Thanks much!
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My sympathies to you and your family.
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She certainly did, and IMHO, she shared those thoughts you mention to attest to the fact that she knows you love her!!
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The pain of not having Mom or Dad to physically share, is like being homesick; you know where home is, but can't be there at the time. Home is Mom and Dad.
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Sorry for your loss.
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