Some harsh reality that I've experienced!
 

STOP Dating Single Moms!

I'm sure I don't agree with everything this guys says but he makes a lot of valid points.

He's brutally honest. That's refreshing but his message will be lost on most people who watch his videos because it's not PC.
When I was younger I believed the story book BS about love and relationships... :rolleyes:

What I've learned is that your circumstances affect your life but you always have the power to make better choices.

(Thanks to "Rodsrsr" for sharing a video from this guy in a PARF thread)

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Pop em out for the welfare..

I know one black woman that has had 10 children before she is 30..with multiple guys.

Her dad was retired Army and was a player.

Just what does "know" really mean?

I made it in 1 minute before realizing the guy was a loser. Then jumped around to conclude the guy is a loser. Net net, guy is a loser so he can only date loser women.

People, pick up
on what I'm puttin' down now

Welfare mothers
make better lovers

Down at every
Laundromat in town now

Welfare mothers
make better lovers

While they're washin'
you can hear this sound now

Welfare mothers
make better lovers

Divorcee!

Wow, you made it in one minute?
Not even half that.
Agree on the loser part and would like to add douche and wanker to the list.


What a respectful way to talk about women.
(PC has nothing to do with it)
His mom must be so proud...

Never got to the "valid" points he had to make.
I clicked out after the "women who have F'ed up their lives" comment.

I listened to a little bit of it. The guy sounds like a jerk.

Just to be clear....I rarely watch the clip these threads are about before commenting....

P. Potter

If Jerry S made dating videos .

very predictable responses.
Notice he is talking about women who got knocked up and had kids but did not get married. That demonstrates poor decision making, poor character, and irresponsibility.
Excuses are the norm for "some". Shame on him!
Personal accountability is bad, expecting it is unreasonable and cruel.
bah

My father gave me some advice a long time ago (in so many words): be careful, your decisions have consequences. Do not get a girl pregnant out of wedlock, it will screw up your life and hers.
Don't hook up with a girl who has already screwed up her life, her mistakes will become yours.
Don't marry a woman who has been divorced, and don't marry a woman who's parents are divorced. If you do, she'll bail as soon as thing get rocky.
If you find a decent girl who' parents have stuck it out and made it work, it's likely she will too.

He was right, and I listened to him.
I married a good woman who had never been married and didn't have kids, and who's parents are still together.
I've been married once, over 27 years do far.
My three brothers listened too, and they've all been married longer than I have.
Four sons, no divorces, no bastard kids.

Interestingly, my father married a divorced woman with two kids and made it work (58 years until his death), but the sacrifices he had to make were impressive to say the least. A lesser man would not have pulled that off.
So he knew what he was talking about.


BTW, IMO the a-holes who get girls knocked up and walk away without even trying to be decent fathers should have their nuts cut off with a dull hack saw. A little at a time.

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^^^^ Vash notes version:

Listen to da Big Head!

Me no in the band tho'...

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Some you guys wouldn't be able to handle the MGTOW forums.
(it's not anti-dating or anti-women, for the most part, but it is about throwing back the bad fish and keeping your head high regardless.)

In my limited experience with the free dating forums (I won't pay those scammer websites owned by one corporate entity) I've found the MGTOW gents are mostly right. They talk about so many familiar experiences from my own past which I didn't understand at the time.
1- When a woman starts off with "What do you do?" and won't accept a generalized answer she wants to know your income level and if your social status is complimentary to her own self-image. She is not interested in you. Never mind if you are a happy garbageman, an honest and loyal person, intelligent, and have an incredible skill-set of talents.

2- When she won't meet up for coffee or go dutch on the first date she is looking for a free meal.

3- When she says "My kids are my life" it means you will be lowest on the social totem pole and just a wallet on legs.


I sure like the idea of equality and partnership. Just wish it was a reality.

Analyticals & emo's show who they are here. :)

To the emo's, I will say, the guy in the vid is . . . too effn verbose.

But that doesn't make him wrong. Neither does calling him a jerk.

The guy in the video is wearing both pinkie and thumb rings.

Not sure if that is an analytic or "emo" response.

I did not manage to find my wife until I was in my late 30s. I had to date a lot of women from my teen years to late 30s trying to find the right lady.

To my knowledge none of the women I dated were unmarried mothers. Most of them had a civil or decent even a good relationship with their ex husbands, and I met a few ex-husbands. It is rare to find a woman over age 25 that has not had kids.

Many of the ladies I dated were just looking for a break in the routine of being a mom, and dated me on the nights their ex-husbands had the kids. That was great for me. :D

One of my good buddies is in his 50s now and single after two marriages. He has a daughter that is an adult. At that age most women he dates have adult kids. He loves to go cougar hunting on Saturday nights. Catch and release program. I am so glad to be married for 27 years, and not out looking.

The thing that bothers me about the guy is his conclusion that because a woman finds herself being a mother without a male parent that she has “ruined her life”

If my mother had become a single mom, I have no doubt she would have said that I was the greatest thing that ever happened to her regardless of the challenges

This guy apparently assigns zero value to the life of the child and the rewards that being a parent brings to ones own life

At the end of the day, there are good people and bad people out there.

Did a little googling and found out this guy was just turned down for the roll of Shaggy in a community theater production of Scooby Doo. Casting direction was, you guessed it, a single mom. He's a little fragile and emotional in the video but who can blame him, he's perfect for Shaggy. He was devastated, I don't blame him for lashing out. I hope Walmart will take his shirt back.

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Lashing out at single mothers because he was denied the roll of shaggy? This guy is gonna have a rough ride in life

As my father used to yell at me when I was 10 “you wouldn’t last 30 seconds in the army”

^^^:d

This!