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I think i did something stupid
Threw my hat in the ring for our HOA elections
After 20 years my community is finally built out so full control of the board transfers from the developer to residents. I really don’t want to do this but my choices are sell and get the f outa dodge, stay and put up with the karen’s who are itching to take control and watch them burn it down, or suck it up and take an active role in preserving what we have which as far as an HOA run community goes has really been OK the last 15 years i’ve been here.
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Best of luck to ya...
When I'm looking for homes, I do my very best to stay away from HOAs.
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If'n you think you did .... you probably did
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You did OK... Avoid HOA at all costs, but if stuck with it, at least be on the board to control the madness !
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No good deed goes unpunished, godspeed to ya
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: Off the grid- Almost
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My sister and brother-in-law live in an HOA neighborhood.
Lotsa drama over the fancy entrance, and the lights not working. All the bids to repair were sky high. Brother-in-law got himself elected to the board, became president. Hired a backhoe operator, paid by the hour. Hired an electrician, paid by the hour. Job was completed faster, and far less expensive than anything the former board proposed. No more drama. He didn't want to be board president, but saw a need, and solved it. Now, go and do likewise! |
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Wanna trade?😎
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Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: N.S. Can
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If you like the neighborhood, get involved to preserve what you value. Either that, suck it up or get out.
I'm so glad my nearest neighbor is 1/4 mile away. Best Les
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We are living in a townhouse for now, with an HOA, and we wanted to paint the exterior white. We submitted the paperwork to the HOA and they denied it because they said they had to paint the exterior. No ****, Sherlock. You would have the paint code, just like you do every other townhouse in the community. When it’s time to paint, you can look at the records and paint it. 🙄
Later on, we found out all of the board members were able to paint their house. 🤬 |
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Good luck. You are going to have to deal with human beings at their worst.
I recall a few years ago a woman in our neighborhood passed around a flyer asking people, if it was convenient for them, not to mow their lawns during some period of time ( I think it was before 8:00 AM or during the dinner hour, it was nothing unreasonable). It was merely a request, but the blowback she got was incredible. People called her names, called her a communist, all kinds of ridiculous stuff. People suck. While living at the same place we were having a party in my back yard. My neighbor to the rear decided that was a great time to mow his lawn. He was literally blowing grass clippings onto our food. I told him I would gladly mow his lawn for him tomorrow if he would let us enjoy our party. He said nope - gotta do it right now. People really suck.
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I'm with Steve.
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This thread is just the beginning....
Get yer popcorn and stay tuned! |
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Join Date: Feb 2006
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No pregerts!
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Good luck! Please, oh please, don’t be That Guy.
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Just post up a lot of these and you'll be fine.
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It could have their photos on the right hand side ... and they still won't recognize themselves
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If'n they make everyone wear name tags at the first meeting .... over half will be "Bozo"
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